One good thing about internet dating
Anyone trying to date outside of their phone has the potential to come off, well, creepy. I went speed dating for some face-to-face conversations, and it changed everything.
I could gauge my interest within 30 seconds of talking to each person, and didn't have to make plans and text awkwardly all week just to get to there.
But if I didn't meet someone while my favorite musician bathed me in a searing guitar solo? It's not that it's impossible to find love on dating apps—it certainly isn't. Instead of taking a route chosen for me, I considered my strengths and chose something fitted to them.
For some, dating apps will widen the pool and lead to success.
"So if we agree that common interests and values are the types of things we're all looking for in relationships, how can we be expected to find them in an app that sorts for first-glance aesthetics and the ability to write one clever sentence about yourself? Your filters aren't set for love; they're set for lust, and their equation for it is faulty at best.
Your best chance at not getting eliminated before you even start is to conform, in which case you arrive safely in the dating pool without any of the things that make you, you.
Apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Grindr, and others are the dater's tools of choice , and yet hating them is the one thing we can all agree on these days.
They're often more hazard than help, and the forced psychoanalysis of every picture and witty answer can shake even the most durable of confidences loose. Is it really possible to find true love with just your thumbs?
I wanted someone who was a good friend, a motivator, someone who enjoyed being a blessing to those around them.A symbiotic relationship where two people don't just grow together, but toward each other.But how do you decide on the person, the deciding factor of your success?My personality, my humor, my empathy, even my snack-readiness, with no thumb-crafting involved.We know humans crave connection—real, deep, meaningful connection.