Not interested in dating right now
The last thing you want is to fall for a man who has one thing on his mind. The bad thing is if he only wants sex from you…and once he gets it, he’s done with you…then you have a problem. I’m going to help you decipher the signs he just wants sex so that you can decide what to do about it. Just having sex with someone can sometimes be super fun…as long as both of you are on the same page in terms of this being a sex-only relationship.
Having no strings attached means you get your physical needs met without having any of the work (or risk) of a relationship.
Still, these men are out there, so knowing the signs that he just wants sex can save you a lot of heartache and headache.
When women were in short supply, men were more likely to be ready to commit. If a man is surrounded by women (lots of female friends, at parties with lots of women), he likely sees the abundance as a challenge to conquer. Now, certainly, a man who is willing to commit and be in an actual relationship with you should leave behind at least some of the women he formerly was around.
I’ve always personally found that once I meet a woman I’m serious about, I cut ties with any other (insignificant) women in my life. If you spend the majority of your time together having sex…or if your dates consist of delivery pizza or a quick trip to 7-Eleven…then I’m sorry to say…but he just wants sex. Invite him out for a real date and see what his reaction is.
How’s a gal supposed to obsessively track her crush if she doesn’t have the timestamp of her last online activity?!
There’s a special place in hell for the guy who decided to allow read receipts to be disabled. If you’re getting pitying looks or avoiding gazes from her friends, they’re preparing themselves for the breakup. So if she’s gone from hoodies in the park to Winehouse eyeliner (#Wine Liner) at all times, then she’s looking to get back on the market. Chances are, she is starting to hook up with one of them.